Vietnam: Letting Go of the Past

I wrote the following after Tess & I visited Danang, Vietnam in April 2000.

Vnm2The 25th anniversary of the United States’ withdrawal from Vietnam was upon us. Judging by the media coverage this commemoration received, the Vietnam War was not forgotten. By coincidence Tess and I found ourselves in Vietnam leading up to this occasion. Two years previous, Tess participated in a press trip that included a short stay at a gorgeous resort on a beach in Danang, Vietnam. This beach is commonly referred to as China Beach, located on the Gulf of Tonkin. During the Vietnam War, China Beach was almost the nucleus of US military activities. Today it is a long stretch of sandy white beach, with one five star resort: the Furama Resort, Danang. At the north end of the beach rise several jungle-shrouded mountains. It was from these mountains that the Vietcong watched every move of the US military. You can see a picture of the Furama Resort on the front cover of People Magazine commemorating the The 25th Anniversary.

Tess and I discussed the war several times during our five-day stay. We agreed that the nation dragging around the past of the Vietnam War was the United States, not Vietnam. For most of her life, Vietnam has been at war. This is a people who have grown accustomed to war being a regular and accepted part of life. The end of the Vietnam War marked the beginning of now thirty plus years of conflict free life. Quite possibly, the longest period of peace that Vietnam has experienced for some time. And since then, the Vietnamese government has slowly begun to open up the economy. It has a way to go, but many who visit Vietnam frequently, or even live there, say that the pace of change in Vietnam operates at Internet speed with or without the Internet. After continuing to read about The Vietnam War, and living in Hong Kong for the time I have, I have had the chance to ask many Asians (including Vietnamese) about The Vietnam War. (The Vietnamese call it The American War.) The response always contains the following theme: "You have to let go of the past and move on…"

The Vietnamese are extremely friendly, with an intense desire to better themselves and help others. Vietnam boasts one of the highest literacy rates in Asia, if not the highest. Even the number one motivator for mothers giving their children up for adoption is not to find a better life for the child, but a better education, if you can imagine that.

The Vietnam War has fascinated me for years and years. I have read easily more than a hundred books ranging from historical to personal accounts. Two nights before we left for our Easter weekend in Danang I sat up for three hours reading through a fascinating web site dedicated to the Vietnam War. Naturally I followed several links soon finding myself reading the nauseating detail of United States government interviews from the search for MIA (Missing In Action.) Therefore, Tess and I were quite amazed to experience what we saw that week while transiting through the Hanoi International Airport en route to Hong Kong.

On several occasions while dealing with the insanity of Hanoi’s airport, we glanced outside to see a massive United States Air Force transport plane (C-17) sitting on the tarmac. There were no 747’s at the airport that we could see, but had there been, I am sure they would have been dwarfed by this huge, gray, obese machine.

The rear ramp of the machine sat extended onto the tarmac like the lazy tongue of a dragon, panting in the hot sun. Nothing seemed to be happening, except for numerous civilians and military personnel running around. Each time I looked at the beast, I half expected a fully restored ceremonial Jeep to ride out of the dragon’s gaping mouth. As our transit bus drove us to our Cathay Pacific plane, the beast’s neighbour, we noticed six sets of trestles set-up behind the military plane. We boarded our Cathay flight and waited to depart.

Roughly ten minutes before we left, I glanced out our window to find the scene behind the beast transformed into a military ceremony. Sitting on each set of trestles was a silver coffin. Four of them were already draped in fresh, new American flags. The other two were being draped as we watched. Four soldiers, each wearing a different style uniform and looking as though they each represented one arm of the United States military, cared for the coffins. Several more senior looking military personnel looked on, saluting the coffins as they were draped. With the last two coffins completed, the four soldiers than proceeded to effortlessly carry the decorated coffins into the belly of the plane one at a time.

On the far side of this occasion stood a small crowd of onlookers, some military, but mostly civilians with a lot of cameras. What was more interesting, though, was the crowd watching the proceedings from our side. "Who were these people," I thought to myself. There were eight lines of roughly six people in each line. Two of the lines clearly consisted of military personnel in full military dress. Their movements were consistent with the salutes of senior personnel saluting fallen comrades. To the left were six more perfectly formed lines of civilians.

What we were watching was six fallen soldiers on their way home. Their departures were perhaps 25, 30 or maybe even 40 years late. Certainly, their status during those long years was MIA, and there on the anniversary of The Vietnam War, these MIAs were no longer MIA. They were going home. Standing there, in the blistering heat, were a handful of friends and family representing each one of these soldiers. One line of family and friends for each soldier. We learned after the fact that Senator John McCain was one of the people dressed in civvies. In the last week the media has carried numerous pictures of this event. IN someof those media stories, if you look closely, you will see a picture of a Cathay Pacific plane in the background… Tess and I were on that plane.

I sat on CX 743 and watched in awe. After so many years of personal fascination and curiosity towards The Vietnam War, it was an extraordinary privilege to share this moment that provoked all types of introspective thoughts. Suddenly our plane nudged forward. We pulled away as the last coffin disappeared into the dragon’s mouth. – April 2000

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  1. Mum aka Mo aka Maureen May 5, 2005 at 6:38 am

    I remember you and Tess telling us about this visit on your return, Charles. Your blog is beautifully written as well as being descriptive and interesting. Thanks for your insight.
    M xox

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  2. Wonderful memory and I too have had a sort of fanciation with the Vietnam “conflict”…I took a class on it my Sr. year of highschool… lots of amazing stuff going on around this subject…thanks for sharing!
    xo lyns

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  3. Auntie Pammie May 5, 2005 at 11:19 pm

    Hey MC,
    I also was/am fascinated by the “American war” and so enjoyed my trip to vietnam last year, that I can say I will be going back. I didnt understand the attraction that you and Tess spoke of , until I was fortunate to have experienced it firsthand. Beautiful country and people.
    Auntie P

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  4. Charles, I didn’t know you liked the VN books! how about Derailed in Uncle Ho’s Victory Garden, Sideshow, When Broken Glass Floats, The Sorrow of War, A Bright Shining Lie, When Heaven and Earth Change Places, Lost over Laos — what are some other good ones?!

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Vietnam: Letting Go of the Past

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4 Replies to “Vietnam: Letting Go of the Past”

  1. Mum aka Mo aka Maureen May 5, 2005 at 6:38 am

    I remember you and Tess telling us about this visit on your return, Charles. Your blog is beautifully written as well as being descriptive and interesting. Thanks for your insight.
    M xox

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  2. Wonderful memory and I too have had a sort of fanciation with the Vietnam “conflict”…I took a class on it my Sr. year of highschool… lots of amazing stuff going on around this subject…thanks for sharing!
    xo lyns

    Reply

  3. Auntie Pammie May 5, 2005 at 11:19 pm

    Hey MC,
    I also was/am fascinated by the “American war” and so enjoyed my trip to vietnam last year, that I can say I will be going back. I didnt understand the attraction that you and Tess spoke of , until I was fortunate to have experienced it firsthand. Beautiful country and people.
    Auntie P

    Reply

  4. Charles, I didn’t know you liked the VN books! how about Derailed in Uncle Ho’s Victory Garden, Sideshow, When Broken Glass Floats, The Sorrow of War, A Bright Shining Lie, When Heaven and Earth Change Places, Lost over Laos — what are some other good ones?!

    Reply

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

ABOUT AUTHOR
Charles

Originally from Canada and lived in Hong Kong for fifteen years. Married to the terribly talented & gorgeous Tess.

RECENT POSTS
No Joy

I doubt my father will be thrilled with my inaugural entry into the blogging world. But read on anyway… In my younger, pre-parenthood and much

Sebastian’s Knee

Many read Tess’ post on Sebastian’s knee. I will now tell you what ended up happening at the Tuesday morning follow-up appointment. This is Hong

Sebastian the Naughty Pedestrian

I am writing from Bangkok. I am on a business trip and staying in the same hotel from my first trip to Asia in 1990.

New pictures posted!

new pictures posted on tess’ blog of the triplets and Sebastian… click here!

Macau Recruiting Issues

Tantalizing Tess left today for her grandfather’s funeral. Sombre moods. I am sitting at our computer sipping a glass of white wine. It’s about 11